There Must Be More For Me

And you’re right—there is.

You’re not stuck.
You’re simply running an old program that can’t take you where you want to go.

Does This Feel Familiar?

• You’re working harder than ever with very little to show for it.
• You know you’re capable of more, but something keeps pulling you back.
• Visibility makes your chest tighten.
• Your income circles the same ceiling again and again.
• You feel drained from living a life that doesn’t feel like it belongs to you.

If any of this hits home, you’re exactly where you need to be.
This is where things begin to shift.

Before We Begin

Most people were never taught how their mind actually works.
We grow up thinking motivation and discipline create change…
but the real driver of your results sits much deeper.

You’re about to understand the part of your mind that silently shapes your confidence, your income, your reactions, and the choices you make every single day.

Why You Feel Stuck

(The Part No One Told You About)

You’re not failing.
You’re fighting your old programming.

That’s why you:

• hesitate when it’s time to act
• freeze when visibility comes up
• hit the same income ceiling
• start strong… then fall off

It’s not a discipline problem.
It’s conditioning — the old script running in the background.

Your subconscious quietly influences

• what you believe is possible for you
• how capable or worthy you feel
• how you react under stress
• what you tolerate or settle for

It repeats patterns in money, confidence, relationships, and decisions…
even when you consciously want something different.

Once you see this, everything starts to make sense.

How This Shows Up in Relationships

Your subconscious programming influences:

• what you think you deserve
• how you behave in conflict
• who you’re attracted to (and why)

We don’t choose what’s healthy —
we choose what’s familiar.

Even if a pattern creates stress, the subconscious calls it “safe.”

Most people carry childhood conditioning straight into adulthood —
never realising those old coping patterns are still running their life.

Put two people’s lifelong patterns into one relationship…
and things can get complicated — beautifully or painfully — fast.

WHAT'S THE REAL PROBLEM?

The invisible pattern running your life 

Your mental conditioning or paradigm controls 95–97% of your actions, reactions, and decisions in your life.

What is a paradigm

Why should you care?

Your paradigm is the internal programming in your subconscious mind — the mental patterns you absorbed in childhood from your family, environment, culture, and early experiences.

It runs automatically in the background and influences almost everything you do:

• how confident you feel
• how much money you allow yourself to earn
• the decisions you make
• what you believe is possible
• the habits you repeat
• the risks you avoid
• the opportunities you say yes or no to

Even when you consciously want something different, your paradigm quietly pulls you back to what feels familiar —
not what feels good, but what feels comfortable.

And the wild part?
You don’t even notice it happening.

That’s why this matters.

Why Willpower Is Not Enough

All of us want better results in our lives — that part is obvious.

Most people think that if they just try harder, push harder, or “stay disciplined,” their results will finally change.
More action. Longer hours. More pressure.

But you’re not fighting a lack of discipline — you’re fighting your own programming.

Willpower lives in your conscious mind, and that part of your mind only controls 3–5% of your results.

It can get you excited, it can get you started…
But it cannot keep you consistent.

That’s why we all make big January promises —
and by February, the old patterns have already pulled us back in.

By March, those intentions to get fit, lose weight, stop smoking, or finally upskill yourself…
feel like a distant memory.

(Fitness companies literally build their entire business model around this cycle — because they know the paradigm always wins unless you change it.)

It’s not because you’re undisciplined.
It’s not because you don’t want it badly enough.

It’s conditioning —
the habits and patterns your subconscious has been running for years.

Your subconscious mind is the real powerhouse.

It controls 95–97% of your behavior, decisions, habits, reactions, and results.

So if the programming doesn’t change, the results can’t change either.

This is why willpower fades…
and why lasting transformation only happens when the paradigm shifts.

And that’s the work I help my clients do.

What you will notice

The moment you try to change something — raise your standards, take a risk, set a boundary, charge clients more, leave a job, get visible — the paradigm gets activated.

That inner pushback you feel?.

That’s resistance.

And resistance is the paradigm’s defence system. It will go into full alarm mode inside your body when it detects a change. 

Here’s how it actually works

Your paradigm sets the limit.
It decides what feels possible, comfortable, “realistic.”
That’s the programming.

Resistance protects the limit.
It shows up as hesitation, excuses, fear, procrastination, sudden tiredness, anxiety, self-doubt, or that classic “I’ll start on Monday.”
That’s the pushback designed to keep you exactly where you are.

Resistance doesn’t announce itself.

It doesn’t walk in loudly or warn you it’s coming.

It slips in quietly.
It feels familiar.
It sounds reasonable.
It’s sneaky.

And right at the moment you’re about to make a big move,
it shuts everything down —
your energy, your clarity, your confidence, your momentum.

That’s resistance doing its job:
keeping you exactly where your old programming feels safe.

It often feels like

□ Tightness in your chest before a big decision
□ A wave of tiredness when you try to do something important
□ A knot in your stomach when visibility or risk comes up
□ Overthinking, hesitation, or needing “one more thing.”
□ Procrastinating even when you want the result
□ Urgent cleaning, organising, scrolling — anything but the thing
□ Feeling irritated, overwhelmed, or foggy for no clear reason
□ Wanting to quit and “start fresh on Monday.”
□ Reaching for food, screens, or distractions when growth feels uncomfortable

Can you relate to any of these?

WHAT IS HAPPENING

Your mind is trying to keep you safe.

Sudden change feels threatening to the subconscious, so it reaches for what it knows:
predictability, familiarity, the old version of you.

Its job isn’t to make you successful or get you a Lamborghini —
Its job is survival.

So the moment you try to grow, your mind pulls you back to the identity you’ve repeated for years.

Your “old identity” is just old habits, old beliefs, and old patterns —
not who you truly are.
And those patterns don’t let go easily.

This is why change feels uncomfortable.
This is why resistance shows up.
This is why you keep getting pulled back to the familiar, even when you deeply want more.

But here’s what I want you to know

When your internal programming shifts, your entire life begins to rearrange itself.

▪️ You stop second-guessing every move.
▪️ You feel lighter, clearer, more grounded.
▪️ You speak up in moments you used to shrink.
▪️ You notice opportunities you once walked past.
▪️ And your income starts to reflect the person you’re becoming.

And when that inner shift begins…

You start to feel something you may not have words for yet —
a quiet knowing that you can’t keep living the way you have been.

How I Help You

If you feel that quiet inner knowing that there’s more for you —
and part of you wonders if this might finally be the thing you’ve been searching for…

If you don’t know the exact next step —
but you do know you can’t live another year like this…

You’re exactly where real change begins.

Your days are blurring together.
Your income isn’t moving.
Life feels like you’re repeating the same week on a loop.

And you can feel yourself outgrowing the version of you who keeps settling for it.

You want more time. More freedom. More room to breathe —
not another year of coping or pretending it’s “fine.”

And underneath it all?

You just want someone who understands this place — someone who’s lived it —
and can help you shift what’s happening beneath the surface…

So you can stop reliving the same year on repeat — and start creating something new.

THE SOLUTION

WHY THINKING INTO RESULTS WORKS

Thinking Into Results goes straight to the real issue —
your subconscious programming.

It’s the part that:

• panics when you think about leaving your job

• freezes around visibility

• distracts you when you try to work on your dream

• keeps your income at the same level

TIR rewires the source — not the surface.

You will move through the full 12-lesson TIR system with support and application.

- You’ll set your real C-type goal.
- You’ll strengthen your self-image.
- You’ll break the patterns that have kept you playing small.

This isn’t surface-level mindset work — it’s the deeper transformation most people never get access to. In this mentorship with me, we work directly with the part of your mind that’s been running your confidence, decisions, and money on autopilot. As this internal shift begins, clarity grows, confidence rises, and you finally start showing up as the version of you who creates real results.